Sex and Raising a Human
By Amy Yurwit Some of the most startling realizations from the last couple weeks: At least among the population of Nigerian women in Fürstenfeldbruck, sex ed is severely lacking. The social workers try to organize workshops because the people receive no training on HIV/AIDS prevention and many women are apparently under the impression that babies grow in the stomach! Interestingly, the government provides tampons but not condoms. There are so, so many pregnant women because 1) people can’t afford, don’t know how, or won’t use condoms 2) are mistaken about Germany having a birthright law like the US (babies born in Germany are not automatically entitled to citizenship) or 3) when one is living in limbo, not allowed to work or even cook, what else is there to occupy your mind other than sex, with physical connection, I imagine, being one of the few attainable comforts in such a grim situation. When we explained the evil but prevalent pra...